UEL English PEN Society Book Reviews

So a couple of years ago, pretty much the only things that the word "gypsy" brought to mind were negative connotations, caravans and tea-leaves. 

And then Channel 4 came along with a programme idea that had a whole lot of people tuning in to learn about a culture that had little known about it and even less liked. "Big Fat Gypsy Weddings" caused a massive storm when it was first broadcast, showing the watchers the story behind this secretive society. 

The book is no different, telling all about the traditions that have been passed down for generations through traveller families. 

However, what this book also presents is an interesting debate amongst young gypsies; is it right that boys and girls are treated so radically differently in their community? I believe that a lot of people will honestly be surprised (and possibly horrified) by the views of these young people on topics such as; 
>Is it acceptable for a husband to beat his wife if she isn't behaving the way he wants?
>Should female gypsies work?
>What is an acceptable age to be aiming for marriage?

The stark contrast between this world and the world that the majority of readers live in will be very plain to see. The sheer size of the wedding dress is something to be amazed by, they often weigh up to twenty stone, nearly three times the weight of the girl who is wearing them. 
The age of the young women being married will also be a shocking factor; the average age for a woman to be married in the UK is 27, whereas in the traveller community it is far younger, with girls as young as 19 being considered "past it" in terms of matrimony.

Don't expect this book to change your life, but do expect it to open your eyes.

Until next time,
Emerald Elizabeth.